By Greg Hammill
Former Executive Director of Student Programs
Fairleigh Dickinson Silberman College of Business
Think of the last time you heard comments like these: “You’re right, but I’m the boss!” Or, “Just do your job!”
How about: “I remember when …” Or, “The kid wants a promotion after six months on the job!”
How did you react?
Were you offended? Were you okay with the comment? Did you understand, or not understand, why someone would say these words? The words and your reaction, as well as the reactions of others, reflect generational differences in the workplace.
If you don’t think generation makes a difference, think of this example. When asked to recall how and where Kennedy died, the Veterans and Baby Boomers would say gunshots in Dallas, Texas; Generation X remembers a plane crash near Martha’s Vineyard, Mass.; and Generation Y might say, “Kennedy who?”
There is a serious new problem in the workplace, and it has nothing to do with downsizing, global competition, pointy-haired bosses, stress, or greed. Instead, it is the problem of distinct generations—the Veterans, the Baby Boomers, Gen X and Gen Y—working together and often colliding as their paths cross. Individuals with different values, different ideas, different ways of getting things done, and different ways of communicating in the workplace have always existed. So, why is this becoming a problem now?
The Power of Four
This is the first time in American history that we have had four different generations working side-by-side in the workplace. Remember, if you are old enough, when older workers were the bosses and younger workers did what was asked of them, no questions asked.
There were definite rules as to how the boss was treated and how younger workers treated older workers. No longer: Roles today are all over the place and the rules are being rewritten daily.
At work, generational differences can affect everything, including recruiting, building teams, dealing with change, motivating, managing, and maintaining and increasing productivity. Think of how generational differences, relative to how people communicate, might affect misunderstandings, high employee turnover, difficulty in attracting employees, and gaining employee commitment.
Each generation has distinct attitudes, behaviors, expectations, habits, and motivational buttons.
Research indicates that people also communicate based on their generational backgrounds. Learning how to communicate with the different generations can eliminate many major confrontations and misunderstandings in the workplace and the world of business.
Let’s try an analogy to help illuminate the issue. What often happens when a family gets together for a holiday or a vacation? Four generations—you (let’s assume you’re a Boomer); your children (Xers); your grandchildren (Gen Y); your brothers and sisters (Boomers); and your parents (Veterans)—all trying to get along together.
How long does it take before someone mentions “the good old days” and another says “I remember when … ?” Is that when things become testy? How many times is so much friction created that family members leave the gathering saying “never again”? Do you usually attribute this to “your family” or do you find yourself saying, “that’s just what we’re like whenever we get together?” Could this be due to generational differences and not just “the way the family is?”
Whether at a family gathering or in the workplace, how do you manage inter-generational groups with conflicting work ethics, dissimilar values, and idiosyncratic styles? How do you get them to stop snarling at each other? How do you motivate them to get along or work together?
Every generation has created its own commotion as it has entered into the adult working world. And, every generation says the same things about other generations—“They don’t get it,” or, “They have it so much easier than we did.”
Unlocking the Mystery
To begin to understand how individuals in different generations act and react, one must first start with understanding oneself. Begin by locating your birth year on the “Generation Timeline”: Veterans (1922-1945), Baby Boomers (1946-1964), Generation X (1965-1980), or Generation Y (1981-2000). Since this timeline represents a conglomeration of many views, the starting and ending dates of the generations are subjective, not scientific or fully agreed-on time spans. However, this subjectivity poses no real problems since the variation of years is not significant enough to impact the big picture of a generation’s description.
The first thing to consider is that individuals and their underlying values, or personal and lifestyle characteristics, seem to correspond with each generation.
For example, education characteristics vary widely by generation. Veterans regard education as a dream; Boomers as a birthright; Gen Xers as a way to get where they want to be in life; and Gen Yers as an incredible expense. Other personal and lifestyle characteristics that vary similarly by generation include core values, family structure, mode of communication and use of media, and attitudes toward money.
And those characteristics listed above are but a very few of those that have been studied and reported by various authors. Obviously, not every person in a generation will share all of the same characteristics with others in the same generation. However, these examples are indicative of general patterns in the relationships between and among family members, friends, and people in the workplace. Individuals born at one end of the date range or the other may see overlapping characteristics with the preceding or succeeding generation.
These generational distinctions make it easy to see why Generation X (which grew up as latch-key kids) cannot understand what their grandparents mean by the traditional family or what fun it was to spend Christmas together as a family. Are you worried about the possibility that your Baby Boomer children may be unable to retire or have to move in with you or their children as they reach the later years of their lives? Possibly you should be.
Do you now see why your view of education might differ from your children’s views? Do you understand why your children may not want to go to a movie with you? Can you see how generational issues, such as what to do for entertainment, can create friction on those family vacations or at holiday get-togethers?
Understanding these characteristics about individuals makes it easier to look at workplace characteristics by generation, and how they manifest themselves in business. Workplace characteristics such as work ethic and values, attitude toward work, leadership style, interactive style, communications, feedback and rewards, messages that motivate, and work and family life balance all vary by generation.
Here, for example, are messages that motivate members of different generations: Veterans: “Your experience is respected.” Boomers: “You are valued. You are needed.” Generation X: “Do it your way. Forget the rules.” Generation Y: “You will work with other bright, creative people.”
At the beginning of any team formation, an effective leader should consider spending time learning how team members wish to communicate.
An example, based on these traits, would be to think about how words are received differently. When a Boomer says to another Boomer, “We need to get the report done,” it is generally interpreted by the Boomer as an order, it must be done, and done now. However, when a Boomer says to an Xer, “This needs to be done,” the Xer hears an observation, not a command, and may or may not do it immediately.
Getting Back to Work
With the above observations in mind, let’s look at a few work situations and how one might handle them.
• At annual appraisal time, a manager from the Veterans generation gives out a nice bonus for a project well done. The Generation X employee is ungrateful and says, “Why didn’t I get this six months ago, when the project was completed?”
Gen X wants instant gratification, whereas a person in the Veterans generation is happy to get money any time. The solution here may be for the company to explore reward plans geared to the different generations, or things like monetary rewards and recognition given when they are earned.
• A Generation X manager tells a Boomer he has been working too hard and should take time off to take the family on vacation. Instead of saying thanks, the Boomer replies, “I work to get ahead, to get a promotion, not for a vacation.” The next time that situation comes up, the manager might elect to give this particular employee a bonus, rather than suggest a vacation.
• A top-notch, cross-functional team with individuals from several different generations has been set up to recommend a solution to a nasty manufacturing problem. After a couple of weeks, the manager responsible for the team cannot understand why there is constant bickering and nothing is getting done.
If the manager were aware of just one characteristic of each individual relating to communication needs, he or she might understand the stalemate.
The Veterans on the team are looking for handwritten notes and direct, specific requests for work to be done.
The Boomers do not like to work independently, and they expect to have meetings any time, any place—and it is fine if they are called day or night.
Xers do not want to hear about the project outside of work, and don’t dare call them at home. And the Yers don’t want any meetings at all, they only communicate via voicemail and email.
Is it any wonder that the team is having trouble getting motivated toward the goal?
A Boomer is working for a Generation Y individual, and there is nothing but animosity between the two. Why? Generation Y individuals, born since 1980, have many of the traits of the Veterans. They are not like their parents. They are curious, goal-oriented, and loyal. Solution: consider having Boomers work for Veterans rather than Gen Ys.
There are more pronounced differences between the generations today than ever before. What can one expect with the dramatic changes in our world in the last 60 years?
Being aware of these differences can help individuals tailor their message for maximum effect, regardless of the task, or the relationship—family, friends, workplace peers. Good business is based on understanding others. The majority of us think that the correct way, and the only way, is our way.
In business, as well as in personal life, that is just not true. To work effectively and efficiently, to increase productivity and quality, one needs to understand generational characteristics and learn how to use them effectively in dealing with each individual.
About Greg Hammill
Before retiring in 2006, Greg Hammill was the executive director of Student Programs, in the Silberman College of Business at Farleigh Dickinson University in New Jersey.
Previously, he was executive director of FDU’s Center for Human Resource Management Studies (CHRMS).
Hammill was director of employment for AT&T in the 1990s, when he recognized the need to develop an understanding of generational differences to assist in the hiring and retention of managers. He explains, “Without understanding characteristics of the generations, it was impossible to understand why recent college graduates were not interested in employment at AT&T, or why managers in their 40s and 50s were leaving AT&T.”
Before coming to Fairleigh Dickinson, Hammill was the chief operating officer of Talent Alliance, Morristown, NJ, where he oversaw career development software support and Web design.
Editor’s Note: This article originally ran in Fairleigh Dickinson University Magazine.