• January 2015

Start 2015 by Enhancing Your Powers of Intuition

Do you believe in the power of intuition?

Five years ago I had a feeling that what I needed to do to expand my PR firm was to create a monthly business magazine that would enable entrepreneurs to educate other entrepreneurs about best practices in small business.

After all, my clients wanted to be featured in the news. What better way to do that than to launch an online magazine that would feature their insights and wisdom, help them reach an even broader audience, and also provide my firm with an additional revenue stream.

My gut instinct panned out. With the January 2015 issue of Be Inkandescent magazine, we embark on our sixth year of publishing.

The magazine gets nearly a million visits each month. We have more than 50,000 subscribers, thousands of social media contacts, and dozens of columnists who regularly write for the magazine.

On our Search page you’ll find more than 2,000 articles we’ve published to date, which we hope stimulate you to think about your business in new and exciting ways.

And we believe the best is yet to come.

Case in point: Our cover girl this month is world-renowned intuitive guide Laura Day.

Her fans include Nicole Kidman, Chris Rock, and Brad Pitt, who said: “I believe in the gut, and I believe in Laura Day.”

Day’s long-time friend Demi Moore adds: “Laura Day is a remarkable woman with remarkable abilities. But for me, what is most remarkable about her is how she taught me to believe in myself and my own intuition.”

That sentiment is shared by millions who have read Day’s seven best-selling books. In addition to celebrities, her clients include executives at some of the world’s largest corporations, as well as other professionals who hire her to help them achieve their goals and dreams.

I had the opportunity to attend Day’s 2014 “Intuition Boot Camp” in New York City last month. About 30 other attendees and I learned the techniques she uses to tap into our innate intuition with the mission of propelling ourselves, our own clients, friends, and loved ones ahead to achieve myriad goals — including finding a dream job, making better investments and business decisions, identifying which opportunities will pan out, and more.

Sound like magic? Nonsense, writes Day in her latest book, How to Rule the World From Your Couch.

“There is a lot of science behind, actual proof of, the powerful, amazing abilities that intuition can yield — things and experiences that you may have previously deemed impossible. Some of you will find it hard to believe that what I say you can accomplish is actually possible: You will use your own mistakes as proof that intuition doesn’t work and discount your success. This is where perseverance comes in.”

Scroll down to read more. And click here to listen to our podcast interview with Laura Day on the Inkandescent Radio Network.

That’s not all!

Our columnists celebrate the start of a new year by sharing their expert and intuitive insights. It’s my intuition that you’ll find the following articles especially useful as we start off the new year:

  • Insurance agent Dave Beck offers a strategic three-step plan to help parents of children with special needs properly plan ahead for their financial future in this month’s Retirement column.

As always, we leave you with an inspiring thought for the month.

This one comes from prolific English poet and novelist Robert Graves, who during his long life produced more than 140 works.

Graves believed: “Intuition is the supra-logic that cuts out all the routine processes of thought and leaps straight from the problem to the answer.”

Here’s to tapping into your powerful intuitive ability, and achieving your ultimate Inkandescent success in 2015. Happy New Year! — Hope Katz Gibbs, publisher, Be Inkandescent magazine

Laura Day's "Practical Intuition"

COVER STORY: JANUARY 2015

LAURA DAY HELPS US HONE OUR INTUITION

By Hope Katz Gibbs, Publisher
Be Inkandescent

“The only difference between people who use their intuition well and everyone else is success,” insists intuitive guide Laura Day in her latest book, “How to Rule the World From Your Couch.”

“You don’t have to be full of ‘get up and go’ to have success, find love, or even earn a living” she believes. “There are tools, innate tools, that permit you to do much of the heavy lifting without your feet ever touching the floor.”

An internationally renowned teacher and intuitive, Day has penned seven books with the goal of teaching millions how to create success using their intuition.

Her latest book is a step-by-step guide with exercises that are easy to follow, fun to play with — and lead to results that will amaze you.

So it was great to sit down with Day on the couch of her NYC apartment and talk about how more people can tap into their innate inner-knowing. Scroll down to read our Q&A.


Be Inkandescent: First, let’s give an overview of this topic. What exactly is intuition?

Laura Day: Intuition is our ability to extend our senses in time and in space. It’s not based on experience. It is just a quick instant knowing of what will be. We live in a unified world, and the brain is considered a limiting organ that can only deal with what is in front of us, and what is going on moment by moment and day by day.

That is actually a very healthy thing to do.

But understand that we also are like light. Our mind is able to act like a light wave and experience different realities, different people, different time zones. Bringing that information back into our daily lives for more functional operating systems, more informed ones, gives us the opportunity to understand life in a new and exciting way.

Be Inkandescent: What you teach really is practical information. In fact I happened to read your first book, Practical Intuition, published in 1996, the year after I had my daughter, Anna. It gave me wonderful insight as a new mom, and I have been a fan of yours ever since. Take us through some of the practical steps that can help people become more intuitive about themselves or more adept at using their intuition.

Laura Day: I wrote that book 20 years ago because I wanted to tell people that intuition was more than mysticism. Fortunately, today intuition has been studied by scientists, and there is a lot of proof that it’s more than hocus-pocus. People are seeing that these capacities of the human mind are not only verifiable, but useful when it comes to perceiving more than what the eye can see.

Be Inkandescent: Is that why you called the book “Practical Intuition” — because you wanted to expand the perception of intuition as a skill all of us have?

Laura Day: It was. Back then, when people talked about intuition, they were often speaking about past lives. Frankly, I have enough trouble with this one! What I wanted to show people is that they can access knowledge about practically anything to enhance their lives and their businesses.

One of the problems with intuition is that it challenges the natural boundaries of our thoughts and beliefs. So if you are skeptical, and you get information you don’t know how to place, it can be pretty weird — to say the least.

Be Inkandescent: And you are confident that all of us are getting that kind of information all the time, right?

Find out her answer in Tips for Entrepreneurs.

Celebrate 2015 With Laura Day's Tips to Harness the Power of Your Instincts

How can you practically, and easily, harness the power of your intuition?

That’s the question we asked internationally renowned intuitive guide Laura Day, author of seven books on the topic, including “Practical Intuition,” and her latest, “How to Rule the World From Your Couch.”

To fully embrace all that is coming your way in 2015, here are Day’s 15 tips for boosting your intuition:

  1. Have a goal. The key to harnessing your intuition is to have a goal or a target that you are trying to get information about. Then, when you get that “out of the blue” information related to your goal or target, you know exactly how to interpret it. I always ask clients and students to know what their goals are. Goals are more than questions because you will organize the information you receive around those goals. And unless you are mentally ill, you will naturally repress information that you can’t do anything about.
  2. Don’t worry that you will get information you can’t do anything about. If three minutes from now a bolt of lightening is going to strike where you’re standing, and you aren’t going to have time to move, intuition is not going to let you know about it. But you will know that lightning is about to strike if you do have time to move. Intuitive impressions are usually actionable. The reason this is important is because people confuse intuition with their fears or their hopes.
  3. Keep an intuition journal. Two weeks before 9/11, another psychic researcher and I kept seeing visual images of planes crashing into buildings. But the two days before 9/11, we weren’t reporting anything like that. After the tragic event, I was reminded that keeping a running dialogue in an intuition journal will help you predict things far in advance — even though sometimes you can’t do anything about them.
  4. Document everything you feel. The best way to hone your intuition is to write down a maximum of three clear goals. These can be goals for a day, or for a strategy session, or for a meeting. Then notice what comes to you. I am a big believer in documenting because the mind is a messy place. When a thought or idea comes to you, jot it down. You will find that once you have your goals and you begin documenting things that you notice, those seemingly “out of the blue” intuitive perceptions are actually creating a road map for you.
  5. Be careful how you interpret “signs.” One of the nice things about intuition is that the information you seek often comes in a nonlinear way. That said, I always think it’s funny when people think they know what action to take because they see “signs.” For example, I once had a client who felt that the fact that she kept seeing yellow roses on the street was a sign that her ex-lover was still in love with her. Yet she didn’t consider the fact that he hadn’t been in touch with her for years — or that he was now happily married and had two children — as a sign indicating his level of interest in her. Really? My advice is not to mystify and complicate the information you have. Simply look at it all as data, and realize that it won’t always tell you what you want it to tell you. However, it will give you an ability to change a direction, and that is really what intuition is for.
  6. Avoid visualization techniques. In the last few decades, we have learned about positive visualization techniques, where we aim to create something from the imagination. With intuition you have a target — a specific target such as bringing in a business partner or finding a true love — not imaging something you conjure. When you differentiate the two, your attention will shift. When you meet someone at a dinner party, pay attention to what you are seeing, hearing, sensing. That person may be fundamental to your life, or he or she may simply lead you to the next bit of information that will guide you. Let everything you see, sense, and feel tell you a story.
  7. Embrace the idea of “embodiment.” People have gotten used to using positive visualization, which I feel in many ways is merely wishful thinking. In contrast, embodiment refers to the ability to use all of your senses — to taste, hear, smell, see, and even use your memory. In intuitive terms it’s called mediumship, and it allows you, for a period of time, to “become” the object or the goal you are hoping to achieve. When you embrace the idea of embodiment, you can actually feel what someone else is experiencing. It sounds a bit “woo-woo,” but try it. I honestly think it’s worthwhile for all of us to be consciously aware of what’s around us, what the barriers are, and what tools we have at our disposal to make our goals achievable.
  8. Stay grounded. Fact-based thinking is empowering, and that is what embodiment is about. Have a goal, experience that goal as real and true in this moment, and notice everything that gets in the way. Then make moving through those barriers your target. This is where the interesting dynamic occurs.
  9. Have integrity. For businesses, and for human beings, integrity is the ability to clearly see what needs to be done. One of the things that often gets in the way of using intuition effectively is that sometimes someone wants a specific achievement or goal that conflicts with an essential part of who they are. It could be they don’t feel it’s right, or it challenges something else important in their life. Finding a clear voice for all parts of yourself, and your work, is essential.
  10. Realize that the only thing that separates a psychic from a psychotic is whether their information is right. It’s a wonderful thing about intuitive information that you can’t always put your finger on where the information comes from. When you get “out of the blue” information — whether it’s about your company, your family, or your market — it’s very important to look at it along with all of the other information available, including financial information, hard facts, and other analytic data.
  11. Sleep. I think people overlook how important sleep is. We all have read the research about the importance of getting enough sleep. When it comes to honing your intuition, you can get great information when your senses are at rest. If you have a problem to solve, or a question you are trying to answer, target it before you go to sleep. When you wake up, you may not have the answer — but you will have a clear and directed bit of information to access. Take notes the moment you rise.
  12. Pay attention to what you can control. One of my most useful moments of intuition came a couple of weeks before the market crash at the end of 2007. At the time, I felt like I wanted to get out of the market — it didn’t feel safe to me. It wasn’t logical. No one thought I was in my right mind to pull my money out. But I did. Then, a few days before the crash, I didn’t feel that way. If I had, I believe I would have been too anxious for my friends and family. For me, keeping that running dialogue with myself about what I’m seeing and perceiving is key. It helps me know when to act on my intuition.
  13. Know your biases. I consider myself a very skilled intuitive who is especially skilled when it comes to prediction. But I know there are certain areas in my life — like around my family — where I am constantly wrong. Not because my intuition is wrong, but because my subconscious is not on target in some areas.
  14. Encourage your employees to use their intuition. It’s important for those of you who have companies to find processes that allow your employees, your staff, and other workers to communicate with each other about their intuition. To be most effective in this area, you have to put them in situations where they feel safe in giving out-of-the-blue perceptions. Begin to have a dialogue with them about those intuitive hits. These forums — even when people can anonymously share their intuitive impressions — can be very accurate.
  15. Trust yourself. Like most children, I assumed everyone saw reality exactly the way I do. I first realized I was different when I was 11 and my mother was in a coma. The doctors didn’t want to give an 11-year-old child a lot of details about what was happening in my mother’s room, and they wouldn’t let me in there. When a very nice chaplain sat down to comfort me, to his amazement, I told him exactly what was going on in my mother’s body. He had no idea how I knew this, but met with me every week for more than a year because he wanted to understand how I saw the world — and I wanted to understand how he saw it. That was my first sense that what I was doing was unusual. Then in my early 20s, I got involved with a university team that was testing extrasensory perception. I think it’s very important to take intuition out of the esoteric and bring it into the practical because we often forget as a company and as human beings that life is challenging. We need tools to manage it well. Beliefs are wonderful, but when you wake up in the morning and you’ve got a problem to solve, you need your tools. Intuition is a tool; it gives us actionable, accurate data that we can apply to create stronger companies, stronger communities, and stronger lives.

For more information, visit practicalintuition.com.

Click here to listen to our podcast interview with Laura Day on the Inkandescent Radio Network.

Change is a math formula. Change happens when the cost of the status quo is greater than the risk of change.”

– Alan Webber, author, "Rules of Thumb"

I always maintained that the greatest obstacle in life isn’t danger, it’s boredom. The battle against it is responsible for most of the events in the world — good or ill.”

– Dr. Evelyn Vogel, Dexter

I’m not afraid of storms,
for I’m learning to sail my ship.”

– Louisa May Alcott

Speaking more than one language is no longer just an asset in today’s job market; it is a requirement.”

– Tom Adams, CEO, Rosetta Stone

You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”

– Winston Churchill

We never know how high we are
 till we are called to rise;
 And then, if we are true to plan,
 Our statures touch the skies.”

– Emily Dickinson

It is possible to fail in many ways…while to succeed is possible only in one way.”

– Aristotle

If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”

– Thomas Edison

No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself, or to get all the credit for doing it”

– Andrew Carnegie

A man without a smiling face
 should not open a shop.”

– Chinese Proverb

We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.”

– Charles R. Swindoll

Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”

– Martin Luther King Jr.

Are you willing to help other people succeed even when it’s not a requirement of your job to be of assistance?”

– Steven Schussler

Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

Of course there is no formula for success except perhaps an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.”

– Arthur Rubinstein

Traveling is one way of lengthening life, at least in appearance.”

– Benjamin Franklin

‎Excellence is to do a common thing in an uncommon way.”

– Booker T. Washington

It is only when the mind is free from the old that it meets everything anew, and in that there is joy.”

– J. Kristnhamurti, The First and Last Freedom

We need to learn to set our course by the stars, not by the lights of every passing ship.”

– General Omar Bradley

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

– Dalai Lama

The world I believed in, back in my most innocent, uninformed, childish mind—is real.”

– Martha Beck

If you want to be busy, keep trying to be perfect. If you want to be happy, focus on making a difference.”

– Lisa Earle McLeod

A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.”

– Bob Dylan

Remember that it’s okay to ask for help when you’re stumped, because sometimes you really can’t be expected to handle everything alone.”

– Martha Beck

I may not be able to change what takes place, but I can always choose to change my thinking.”

– Michelle Sedas

Many people prefer to play it safe when it comes to business matters. Are you willing to take risks in the pursuit of entrepreneurial success?”

– Steven Schussler

Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.”

– Robert Louis Stevenson

The best hobbies are the ones that take us furthest from our primary occupation.”

– Dr. Evelyn Vogel, Dexter

To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life.”

– Robert Louis Stevenson

Once you find something you love to do, be the best at doing it.”

– Debbi Fields, Mrs. Fields Cookies

The follow-your-gut mentality of the entrepreneur has the potential to take you anywhere you want to go or run you right out of business.”

– Bill Rancic, "The Apprentice"

A truly forgiving person is someone who experiences all the anger merited by injustice and still acts with fairness and compassion.”

– Martha Beck

By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

– Sri Aurobindo

A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind.”

– Albert Szent-Gyorgyi

The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want.”

– Lao Tzu

The quality of your life is directly related to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably live with.”

– Tony Robbins

Treat the attainment of happiness in the same way an entrepreneur would approach building a business — with a vision, plan, goals, and a systematic approach.”

– Ted Leonsis

Let us seize the day and the opportunity and strive for that greatness of spirit that measures life not by its disappointments but by its possibilities.”

– W.E.B. Du Bois

Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new lands, but in seeing with new eyes.”

– Marcel Proust

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.”

– Leon Joseph Suenens

If it really was a no-brainer to make it on your own in business there’d be millions of no-brained, harebrained individuals quitting their day jobs.”

– Bill Rancic, "The Apprentice"

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”

– T.S. Eliot

Do you have the desire to create something new; the strength of conviction to believe your creation will be successful, and the reservoir of energy necessary to thrust it into the marketplace?”

– Steven Schussler

Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid.”

– Basil King

Outside of a dog, a book is man’s best friend. Inside of a dog it’s too dark to read.”

– Groucho Marx

You must learn to be still in the midst of activity 
and to be vibrantly alive in repose.”

– Indira Ghandi

Letting go of expectations is a ticket to peace. It allows us to ride over every crisis—small or large—like a beach ball on water.”

– Martha Beck

The important thing is not being afraid to take a chance. The greatest failure is to not try.”

– Debbi Fields, Mrs. Fields Cookies

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